Norwegian woman: I was
raped in Dubai, now I face prison sentence…
Norwegian
interior designer Marte Deborah Dalelv has spoken out after being handed a
16-month prison sentence in Dubai -- after she went to police to report she had
been raped by a colleague.
The
24-year-old was convicted and sentenced on charges of having unlawful sex,
making a false statement and illegal consumption of alcohol.
Her
story is dominating the headlines in Norway, and has raised serious questions
over the way women who allege sexual assault are treated in the United Arab
Emirates.
Dalelv,
who had been working at an interior design firm in Qatar since September 2011,
told CNN on Saturday how a work trip to Dubai in March with three colleagues
turned into a nightmare.
She
said she had been out at a bar with her colleagues and friends, and asked a
male colleague to walk her to her room when they returned at 3 a.m. to the
hotel. She'd asked him to escort her because the hotel was large and confusing,
and she didn't want to be wandering on her own, knowing she'd been drinking,
she said.
When
they reached a room, she realized it wasn't hers -- but the man then pulled her
inside despite her vocal objections, according to Dalelv.
"He
dragged me by my purse in, so I thought, 'OK, I just need to calm the situation
down. I will finish my bottle of water, I will sit here and then I will excuse
myself and say I feel fine,'" she said.
That
was pretty much the last thing she said she remembers before the alleged sexual
assault. "I woke up with my clothes off, sleeping on my belly, and he was
raping me. I tried to get off, I tried to get him off, but he pushed me back
down."
After
someone knocked -- the hotel wake-up call -- she managed to get dressed and
make it downstairs to the hotel reception, Dalelv said. "I called the
police. That is what you do. We are trained on that from when we are very
young," she said.
Some
10 or 12 male police officers arrived, but no female police officers were
present, she said. Statements were taken from both Dalelv and the alleged
rapist.
She
was then taken to Bur Dubai police station, she said.
After
again giving her version of events to officers, Dalelv said, "They asked
me, 'Are you sure you called the police because you just didn't like it?' I
said, 'Well of course I didn't like it.' That is when I knew, I don't think they
are going to believe me at all."
Dalelv
says she was taken for an intimate medical exam and tested for alcohol
consumption. Her belongings were taken and she was kept in jail for four days,
she said, with no explanation as to why.
Dubai
police and UAE government officials have not responded to repeated CNN requests
for comment.
Dalelv
said she managed to call her parents on the third day to tell them she had been
raped and ask them to contact the Norwegian Embassy. A day later, a
representative from the Norwegian consulate came to the police station and she
was released -- but her passport was not returned.
A
piece of paper with Arabic text was handed to her, she said. An Arabic speaker
told her it listed two charges against her: one for sex outside of marriage and
the other for public consumption of alcohol. Both are violations of the law in
the United Arab Emirates.
It
was the first time she was made aware that she faced charges, Dalelv said.
She
was allowed out on bail and has been staying since at the Norwegian Seaman's
Center in Dubai.
Subsequently,
she said her manager advised her to tell the police it was voluntary sexual
intercourse and likely the whole issue would just go away. She followed the
advice and in one of the many hearings at the public prosecutor's office, she
made a statement saying it was voluntary.
Dalelv
was then charged with making a false statement.
"That
was my biggest regret because it wasn't voluntary. I just thought it would all
go away," she told CNN.
But
a representative of Al Mana Interiors, who Dalelv worked for, told CNN that she
was not advised by her manager to say the sex was consensual but rather by a
police officer, who told her that in Arabic and it was translated into English
by her manager.
Dalelv
said a month after the rape, while forced to stay in Dubai as the case wound
through the legal system, she was fired.
The
representative, who declined to be publicly identified, said Dalelv and the
Sudanese man she accused -- who is married with three children -- have both
been terminated by Al Mana Interiors for "drinking alcohol at a staff
conference that resulted in trouble with the police."
A
statement released late Saturday by Al Mana Interiors spokesman Hani El Korek
said the company was sympathetic to Dalelv "during this very difficult
situation." It also said that company representatives were by her side
through the initial investigation, spending "days at both the police
station and the prosecutor's office to help win her release."
"Only
when Ms. Dalelv declined to have positive and constructive discussions about
her employment status, and ceased communication with her employer, was the
company forced to end our relationship with her," the statement said.
"The
decision had nothing to do with the rape allegation, and unfortunately neither
Ms. Dalelv nor her attorneys have chosen to contact the company to discuss her
employment status."
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The
company is owned by Qatari billionaire Wissam Al Mana, who made headlines
earlier this year after it was revealed that he has secretly married singer
Janet Jackson in 2012.
Dalelv
was convicted Tuesday on all three charges and was sentenced to one year in
jail for having unlawful sex, three months in jail for making a false statement
and one month for illegal consumption of alcohol.
CNN
could not immediately confirm what happened to the alleged perpetrator, who was
charged with public intoxication and having sex outside of marriage.
Dalelv
is scheduled to appear at the court on September 5 to begin the appeal
proceedings. Dalelv, who is not allowed to leave the UAE pending the appeal,
said her lawyers have instructed her to be prepared to go back into jail while
they submit a request for bail while the appeal is ongoing.
As
a rule, CNN does not identify victims of sexual assault, but Dalelv went public
with her story.
A
Facebook page has been set up calling for Dalelv's release, as well as a
petition urging the Norwegian government to take action on her behalf.
Her
conviction may risk wider diplomatic repercussions.
Norwegian
Foreign Affairs Minister Espen Barth Eide called his UAE counterpart, Sheikh
Abdullah Bin Zayed al-Nahyan, on Friday night to protest Dalelv's sentencing, a
statement from the Norwegian ministry said.
"I
emphasized that we believe that the conviction is contrary to fundamental human
rights, including conventions that the UAE have officially ratified," Eide
is quoted as saying.
"Norway
will continue to do what we can to support her in what is a very difficult
situation. Our cooperation with the UAE is strong and good, but I conveyed to
my colleague that we are worried that this difficult case may disturb our good
relations if we do not reach a good solution in the near future."
Dalelv
told CNN she received a call from Eide on Friday reiterating Norway's support.
While
Dubai has a reputation as a cosmopolitan city that boasts Western influences,
where visitors can drink at bars and restaurants and unmarried couples can
share hotel rooms, the country adheres to Islamic laws and traditions.
The
United Arab Emirates has been heavily criticized by rights groups, which say it
condones sexual violence against women. Human Rights Watch has called its
record "shameful," saying it must change the way it handles such
cases.
In
December 2012, a British woman reported being raped by three men in Dubai. She
was found guilty of drinking alcohol without a license and fined.
In
January 2010, a British woman told authorities she was raped by an employee at
a Dubai hotel. She was charged with public intoxication and having sex outside
of marriage.
An
Australian woman reported in 2008 that she was drugged and gang-raped. She was
convicted of having sex outside marriage and drinking alcohol, and she was
sentenced to 11 months in prison.
Culled from CNN
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